Volunteer for Life... an Hour at a Time

"Volunteering doesn't have to be a one-time experience. For many, it's a lifetime activity." While I can't pin down the exact source of this quote, I know there are millions of people across the globe who share this sentiment. Why do so many give their time and try to make a difference in others' lives? I think it's the chance to make a real connection with other human beings - and valuing that connection.

What I see in the majority of the volunteers I've worked with is not an "us" and "them" mentality, but a "we." As in, we're all in this together and we're all responsible for helping one another when we need it and celebrating our joys and successes as well.

All of my colleagues in the Alexandria Jaycees, for instance, believe that the chance to make a real difference in someone's life - whether by teaching him to read, helping her feed their family for a few days, or even just listening to her - is in and of itself a gift. And, I can't tell you how much it's meant to me in my own life when I've received the gift of someone's attentive kindness when I just needed to talk.

I'm inspired almost daily by the Jaycees I know. They give so much of themselves - not just their time and talents (which are considerable gifts) but of their compassion and empathy. And their joy.

And, it's not just through organized volunteer groups that I see the incredible gift of caring and moments of true connectedness given - I see it in the daily kindnesses volunteered to co-workers, family and friends who need a hand or an ear; to strangers on the Metro; to people standing in line at the grocery store; and to people you run across in the course of your everyday routine.

But, I think belonging to a volunteer group, whether it's the Jaycees or some other organization, increases the impact you can make.  There are so many ways to get involved - not only through the Alexandria Jaycees or Arlington Jaycees (or any other chapter of the Jaycees) but by searching (by zip code or your interest area, such as helping children - or by your skill sets) Volunteermatch.org or the Alexandria Volunteer Bureau (AVB). All of these websites have volunteer opportunities for numerous Alexandria organizations, such as ALIVE!, Rebuilding Together Alexandria, the Campagna Center, and the Red Cross.

It's an incredibly wonderful feeling to know that you're making a difference in the lives of Alexandrians - even if you can only give a few hours per month. One of the best things I get out of being a Jaycee is that I have an opportunity to give an hour a month - or a couple of hours a week some months - to connect with people in all walks of life. How are you connecting with others in your life?